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Preparing Your 13- to 18-Year-Old for Surgery

Your teenager is having surgery. You may have concerns about how your teenager will cope with this experience. Knowing what to expect can help you and your teenager feel better about surgery. Read this sheet to learn more about how you can help prepare your teenager for surgery.

How Will Your Teenager React?

Girl with mother talking with doctor.

  • Teenagers may worry about pain from surgery. They may also worry if surgery will affect their appearance.

  • Teenagers may be concerned about missing school and being away from friends.

  • Teenagers prefer having space and privacy from parents and other adults. Being sick or in the hospital can make them feel a loss of privacy and control.

How Can You Help Your Teenager Prepare for Surgery?

Teenagers are old enough to understand the details of surgery. Talk to your teenager about surgery as soon as it is scheduled. Following are ways you can help prepare your teenager for surgery:

  • Respect your teenager’s opinions and right to make choices. Allow your teenager to be a part of decisions about his or her surgery.

  • Talk to your teenager about what will happen in the hospital. Help your teenager understand the reason for surgery. Refer your teenager to books or Internet resources to learn more about it, if needed.

  • Take a tour of the surgery department with your teenager if the hospital has this option. Encourage your teenager to talk to hospital staff and ask questions.

  • Respect your teenager’s privacy. He or she may want to speak with hospital staff without you present. Hospital staff may also need to talk with your teenager privately about health issues that can affect the safety of surgery.

  • Be available for support when needed.

  • Encourage your teenager to express how he or she is feeling.

  • If your teenager requests it, ask hospital staff whether siblings or friends can visit.

  • Keep routines as normal as possible in the hospital. This is especially important if your teenager is admitted into the hospital for a long period. Encourage your teenager to keep up with schoolwork and to keep in touch with family and friends.

What Is a Child Life Specialist?

Many hospitals have a child life specialist. This person is specially trained to help children understand and cope with their hospital experience. Families can arrange to see a child life specialist when their child is scheduled for surgery. The child life specialist can help explain surgery, answer questions, and point your teenager to other resources, if needed. Parents and siblings are encouraged to attend and be involved in these sessions.

Online Medical Reviewer: Grantham, Paula, RN, BSN
Online Medical Reviewer: newMentor board-certified, academically affiliated clinician
Last Review Date: 2/14/2013
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